Evolve

Whenever you see articles on how to better your relationship or how to be an AWESOME spouse, they all say pretty much the same thing. Be a good listener, don't go to bed mad,  don't cheat (duh) blah blah. When I stumbled across Lydia Netzer's blog post "15 Ways to Stay Married for 15 Years," I laughed out loud AND may have even learned a few things:)
#9 Is my favorite!
"Live in different houses. In different parts of the country. Travel. Make it so that you can look back and divide up your life into the years you spent in different cities, or different houses. If you're feeling stuck geographically or physically, you can confuse yourself into thinking you're stuck romantically. See your husband in different places, in different contexts, in different countries even. Try it. Take him to a mountaintop and give him another look. Pretty sexy. Take him to a new city and check out his profile. Along the same lines, don't be afraid to change personally, or let your wife change as a person. Don't worry about "growing apart." Be brave and evolve. Become completely different. Don't gather moss. Stagnation is unattractive"
                                                                                                                              credit: Lydia Netzer
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I also really like 3, 4,  & 5.